foblin
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Post by foblin on Jun 16, 2005 13:32:23 GMT -5
I wasn't sure where to put this so I put it here. So um... I have design lessons 3 hours a week and we do 5 different courses a year. I'm on my last course this year and I have 4 weeks left (i think) and my problem is my teacher. I feel really uncomfortable around him, and he knows because I'm not too good at hiding it. It's the uncomfortable you feel when you're near someone who you don't like but they're trying to 'hit on' you or if you're out and someone looks at you in a certain way. I don't know what to do, I'm so useless at this course that he always comes over to help me with my work. I've told one person and they thought I just didn't like the lessons, should I tell someone else? or should I just carry on as it is? And If I tell someone should I ask my yearhead if I can take a different class instead of this design course? I don't know what to do!  |
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Post by starryeyes on Jun 16, 2005 13:56:25 GMT -5
if you are completely sure he is hitting on you or acting to close... then you should tell someone. if you're not comfortable going straight to an adult mabye tell one of your friends and ask them to speak to an adult. but that really sucks cause it sorta puts you in an akward position. anyways try telling someone...that does work  |
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Post by foblin on Jun 16, 2005 14:13:23 GMT -5
I don't think he acctually IS doing anything like that, but that's how it feels. It's difficult because he isn't acctually doing anything, It's just a sort of feeling I get. But it's the same feeling as I would get if he was.  |
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Post by Graveyard Goddess on Jun 16, 2005 20:25:13 GMT -5
Eve you should definetly seek help but do it just so someone you trust knows to keep an eye out on him. you dont have to make it a big deal or anything but tell someone. wow im sounding like a mum  No seriously *nods* my old photography teacher used to look at me like he was undressing me with his eyes. it was horrible. He got fired becuase I wasnt the only one who thought this. Even if there is nothing wrong with him and hes perfectly normal and not hitting on you it doesnt matter becuase hwat matters is your level of comfert and how you percieve his actions or looks. The result of you feeling freaked is what matters-not if it is justified or not from his stance. You are entitled to what ever you feel and that is most important to keep a hold of. Be safe sweetie! xx |
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Post by foblin on Jun 17, 2005 11:31:19 GMT -5
Thanks Stephie  I'll see if I can have a word with my yearhead. She's my english teacher too so she knows me pretty well. |
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Post by starryeyes on Jun 17, 2005 13:46:33 GMT -5
good idea... and one thing i've noticed when talking to adults about something serious is try not to do it in a whiny one....just calmly explain the situation and how it makes you feel. although i'm sure you'd do that anyways |
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Post by Graveyard Goddess on Jun 17, 2005 15:20:43 GMT -5
yes i agree...keep your voice mature and explain just how you feel. youll do just fine  |
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Post by foblin on Jun 17, 2005 15:27:41 GMT -5
Thanks Stephie And Chloe *hugs* #3126452# |
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Post by Graveyard Goddess on Jun 17, 2005 15:32:15 GMT -5
HUGGLES
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Post by foblin on Jun 17, 2005 15:35:40 GMT -5
;D you guys are the bestest! *hugs again*
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Post by starryeyes on Jun 17, 2005 17:12:47 GMT -5
*hugs to eve and stephie* <<<< but i won't hug that |
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Post by foblin on Jun 18, 2005 7:36:41 GMT -5
<<<<<< But it's spazzy! I like it lol
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Post by starryeyes on Jun 18, 2005 18:29:57 GMT -5
so do i but i still won't hug it |
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Post by foblin on Jun 28, 2005 12:34:46 GMT -5
I've told my yearhead and she's trying to think of a way to sort it out. Thanks for your advice and comfort and stuff guys. *hugs* |
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Post by starryeyes on Jun 28, 2005 17:03:03 GMT -5
no problem.... i will always help a friend ;D glad you told someone...that took guts. |
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I'll see if I can have a word with my yearhead. She's my english teacher too so she knows me pretty well.
