crazystrange
Post-Mortem Mod 
Denial is the best way out!
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Post by crazystrange on Apr 1, 2007 18:10:41 GMT -5
hey as most peeps know i have pretty much every doll, but since my mate died a month ago i've not really liked looking at my dolls, he loved them and was one of the few of my mates who really liked them and wanted to know all the info i knew about them. I really dont know wat to do, i have this insane urge to get rid of them but then i'd feel bad cos there are so many memories attached to them, like kris (r.i.p) stayed over one time and he kicked the wall in his sleep and cos my dolls live on shelves above my bed, Lulu, Walpurgis and Eddie hit him on the head so he threw them across the room! so yea have any of u ever felt like just packing it all in?
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Post by lostsoul on Apr 4, 2007 12:18:30 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss. It is so hard when you losse someone so dear to your heart. I know how you feel, I too lost someone so close to me. I know you don't really want to get rid of your dolls but if the memories are too hard right now, maybe just packing them up and putting them away for a while may help. After some time goes by you can take them out again. Time will heal all wounds. For me it's been a couple of years since my friens passed on, it hurt really bad. I had one person that told me "to get over it" the day after he passed away. I thought of him all the time, but as days turned into months and months turn into years I found it easier to talk about him and look at things that he like or remind me of him. It's only been a month for you and this kind of hurt takes time to process and heal. I hope you have people that you can talk to about how you are feeling and stuff. It helps a lot. Again I'm Sorry for your loss. *hugs*  |
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kala
Necrotic Newbie
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Post by kala on Apr 5, 2007 8:27:28 GMT -5
I think you should pack your dolls away for awhile, too. Maybe with time, your dolls will remind you of the good time you had with your friend. My Me-maw died over ten years ago, the only tactile reminder of her I have, is a string of plastic beads. I think about her whenever I put them on and I feel good. However, I wish I had something more significant of her's.
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Post by Graveyard Goddess on Apr 5, 2007 12:35:00 GMT -5
you poor thing. i totally know where you are coming from though. A friend of mine (or former friend) bought me my orchid ragdoll LDD and It was my #1 doll to hug and take everywhere but now the doll gets me sad, becuase it brings up memories...good ones, but they sadden me becuase i know our friendship is gone. so now orchid got put behinde my bed...and i miss her but i want to avoid those memories for a while. i think you should put your dolls away for a bit. then later, youll be able to appreciate the dolls for the good times instead of constantly reminding you of how you no longer have your friend
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